What Do You Want??

Seriously, I ask you. What do you truly want out of this life of yours? What do you want to accomplish? How do you want to be remembered? What impact do you want to have? What adventures would you like experience? Oh my word I could go on with these forever! Think about it. Think big. Everything you have ever wanted in life is within your reach. It truly is! So before you go on, take a moment and picture your life 20 years from now and answer some or all of those questions and any others you can think of.

The reason I ask you this is because the size of your personal business goes hand in hand with your personal vision. Think back to your answers of the questions from just one paragraph ago. Did your answers include other people?

Was your vision so ginormous that there was room for other people to be a part of it and maybe even needed for your vision to become a reality?

I really hope so because there is nothing more exciting and inviting than to be leading a movement. What kind of movement do you want to lead? I’ll tell you what kind of movement I am leading. Let’s go!

I love to inspire people to live life full out and enjoy the hell out it.

• I live to help as many people as I can feel the elation that comes with achieving something that they have worked their buns off for.
• I love to help people find their personal grit and never ever give up on their dreams. That one feels good!
• I live to help people take back their power and create the self confidence that comes with that one.
• I love to show people they don’t have to work like a crazy person and miss out on life just to make money.

On the flip side, people need to know they can live an exciting life and make money at the same time. I mean come on! When you have cash burning a hole in your pocket, there are so many cool things to do!!  But, maybe that’s just me???

• I love to light the flame inside people that has been dimmed or put out in so dang many.

Let’s make that flame a freaking inferno!!

• I live for the feeling of knowing that I had a part, no matter how big or how little, in helping people know that they can design their lives and then they actually do it!

And finally,

• I love that every single one of us is different. We all matter. We are all here for a reason.

We are all special in our own unique way and it is A-Okay to let our Freak Flags Fly and have the time of our lives doing it!!

Would you want to be a part of a movement like that? Does it feel inviting to you? Could you see yourself locking arms with me to help me on this mission? Yes? Then let's do it!! Together!

But what if my vision for a movement isn't exactly what you desire for your life? Did it at least get you thinking about starting one of your own? Doing something big with your life? It did? Well that's awesome! Let’s get back to your life then. Let's work together and figure out how you see yourself changing the world!

Remember you are on this planet for a reason so let's figure out what would bring you complete joy and turn that into a vision.

Once you get that vision, you can start enthusiastically sharing it with the world. It's got to come from your heart and punch people right in the gut when they hear it! If you were to share the vision you have now with people, would it stir up emotions in them as much as it stirs them up in you? Think about it for a minute. Would YOU being able to stay home with your kids or YOU taking your dream vacation, inspire others to join you on YOUR quest? Would YOU wanting to help people live their healthiest lives inspire everyone in the room to want to live their healthiest life as well? Maybe, but most likely not. Those are about YOU. Those visions are not big enough to include others. You could easily expand those though and help inspire others to come along with you. For example,

...I want to help mothers and fathers all over the world decide who raises their children.

...I want to help as many people as possible experience different cultures and see all the places they want to see in a lifetime.

...I want to help and teach people all I have learned to keep themselves as healthy and happy as possible so they can live their best lives.

See the difference? What I have learned is that when you tap into their soul and draw people into themselves to discover what they really truly want out of this life, the possibilities of what you all can ACCOMPLISH TOGETHER is beyond comprehension!

Someone has to go first. Someone has to be the first one to do it. Someone has to the first pull up their big girl/boy underpants and get after it. Someone has to! So why not have that person be you?

You are the first one in your story.

The main character.

The hero.

You can write a short story or a fricking novel and either are okay. It’s your story.  But I am telling you that the impact you can make on this world goes hand in hand with the size and inclusiveness of that vision.

I am cheering you on all the way and if this blog or any of my words ever help you in any way at all, thank you. You just became a part of my story and my vision. I love you!!